Shyanne said she gets to be Officially Foss, her little sister said she would be my daughter officially. Funny the authority they chose, to explain the consequence of the step we are taking, adopting two precious jewels, two wonderful beautiful treasures, warm, loving souls bringing smiles to my being, cracking façade and veneer, flaking away years and years of feelings, an emptiness filled by them, by their older sister, building a family with three last names three children, loved by their mother so, nurtured, coaxed, taught, disciplined, shown the mystery of faith, the grace of the creator, the one triune God. And what it is to be a family, to be part of the others, one body, one family around the dinner table, in the pew, in our prayers for each other now some will be officially my own sharing my name, with her